Pre- Convo For Table Talks

Title:

Table Talks: Spiritual Vitality - God's Intent Of Sexual Health and Wellness

Topics

1. The Battle 

- Its Affects on Men and Women / Single and Married

- The Role of Support

 + From / To Woman Perspective

 + From / To Man Perspective

 + From / To Church as  Leader and As Member

Inline within the same position of the book The Fish, The Hook and The Bait the objective of this 30-45 min conversation is not to provide tips and strategies but to share insights for from the past struggles to help inspire and uplift those individuals who are entrenched in that fight.

Our disclaimer for the video is that as Christians we believe that God the creator of the heavens and the earth and mankind alone holds the key for successful relationship because it is his design. So then by default we lean on the scripture the authoritative position on all things pertaining to sexual health and wellness. We also believe that God gave the gift of psychiatry and psychology to man to help deal with elements of man that bible may not direct address. Ultimately it is up to you to take responsibility over your own health and well being.

Since this is our disclaimer after this point has been expressed we will not restrict our believe about the areas we speak on  and be sure to cite the scriptural passages that lead us to such a conclusion for veracity within our discussion. This broadcast is not intended to be prohibitive from non christian affirming parties but is intend to represent the value that God has placed on this sensitive subject. We will encourage you to seek help from local resources if you find that your issue is more than you can handle. There is nothing wrong with getting help.

The Specifics

The desire to do this presentation arose from a conversation I had with my wife about picture my wife's friend shared on Facebook that I thought was suggestive - not intentionally. I found that I had some latent anger about the disposition that my wife , women and the church had towards those men who has sexual proclivities. My rebuttal was how can you say you are for me and my success in every way but then turn around and  post pictures that reveal more than any man should see of you in this world. My wife's rebuttal was " If you don't like what you see then you shouldn't be on it...remove yourself. Plus your focus shouldn't be on that anyway." " You are right but how can you take a picture which is by definition meant to be looked at and tell me not look." 

She raised an issue about the reason why I did attend the same church anymore. After back and forth for a moment I said " Its very difficult to explain what men go through when they struggle in this area of sexual sins. Everything about the mans world is sexualized in some way shape form or fashion. It is a daily assualt on the sense of man.